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DO YOU NEED COSMETIC SURGERY ?
The question that most
people begin to hear once they tell others about their decision to have
cosmetic surgery is whether or not they need it in the first place. And while there may not be
a clear answer or
a 'right' answer for this question, there are three individual answers
that can
occur. Where might
you fit in?
In some cases, a
patient will know for certain what they want for their body and exactly
what
they need to do to get it. And
in other
cases, the person might truly need the surgery in order to get by in
their
everyday lives.
Those who have a
gastric bypass surgery, for example, often lose weight so quickly that
their
skin can not adapt to the ever-shrinking body.
This weight loss is great for the
patient's health, but severely damages
their self esteem when they see large flaps of skin that remain behind.
The only way to remove
these flaps of skin is through cosmetic surgery, so in these cases, it
seems
that 'yes' is the best answer.
In other cases,
medical reasons like cancer, infections, illnesses, and deformities
necessitate
certain cosmetic procedures.
There are other people
who might need to have cosmetic surgery because of a condition that is
hindering their quality of life. For
example, those who might have too large of breasts might need a
reduction to
help them lessen back pain or shoulder troubles.
Also know as elective
cosmetic surgery procedures, those who actually don't need to have
cosmetic
surgery are generally a fairly larger group.
This is why it's essential that
plastic surgeons carefully screen the
patients that they see for consultations.
When someone doesn't actually
need the surgery, they may not take the risks and the after care
instructions
as seriously as they need to. This
will
result in lesser results than were expected.
Others that might not
require cosmetic surgery may not see the drastic results that they
envision in
their mind. This
can lead to general
dissatisfaction in their appearance as the surgery didn't change all of
their
flaws.
Those who are younger
may also fall into the category of 'no.' Since the human body changes
and grows
through the teenage and the young adult years, it might be best to wait
for the
growing to stop before assessing the need for cosmetic surgery.
Patients who want to
radically change their appearance are generally not the best candidates
for
cosmetic surgery (seen Michael Jackson lately?).
When you want to have multiple
procedures in
order to create the 'perfect' body, you will never be satisfied, which
may not
make you the best person to receive plastic surgery.
Those who are on the
fence about cosmetic surgery will constantly go back and forth about
whether
they actually need cosmetic surgery to improve their appearance. There may be very good
reasons for them to
have the surgery, but on the other hand, they realize that they might
not be the
best candidate at this point in their life right now.
For example, patients
who aren't in great health or who have busy schedules might want to
wait for a
more appropriate time of their lives.
These patients might
have procedures in mind that their body may not need yet too. Those who might want to
have liposuction may
want to try to diet and exercise first before they have the actual
procedure. They may
very well be able to
lose the weight and shrink their bodies on their own, after all.
Or those who are
looking to create a more youthful appearance might want to wait until
they are
a bit older and actually showing their age as much as they think they
might be.
In the end, it's
actually not up to the patient to decide whether or not they need
plastic
surgery in the first place – that decision is up to surgeon who will
perform
the surgery.
Doctors have become
more careful about selecting the candidates that will be best for the
surgery. They need
to weight not only
the anticipated results and satisfaction, but also the probability of
the
surgery progressing without complications.
By sitting down with a
surgeon and discussing the ways they will be able to help the patient,
the two
will find out what the overall goals are and how that will work for
both
parties. The doctor
can point out the
potential results of the surgery by showing pictures of the past
patients they
have had and how their surgeries have turned out – but this is not a
guarantee
that you will get the same results.
Through a series of
questions, the doctor will assess the need for the surgery. While they want to get
your business, your
health and your happiness are more important.
At the same time, a doctor might
refer you to someone else they know who
might be able to specifically address your concerns.
In the end, if a
patient gets a 'no' from a doctor, this is probably the best decision
for the
patient – at that time. Ask why the surgery isn't a good idea and
whether it
might be in the future. From
the doctor's
answer, you might be able to find out how to ready yourself for a
future
procedure.
Of course, you can
always find a surgeon that will tell you 'yes,' but often these will be
doctors
who aren't as concerned about your health and your results. This is why it's so
important to realize for
yourself whether or not you actually need the surgery.
Deep down, you
probably already know that you don't need the surgery, so why risk your
health
for something you can't change in the end?
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